Clara Haynes

Dating & Relationship Coach

‎ Love after heartbreak is possible, and I'll help you find it.

I'm a coach for women looking to rebuild their relationships, rediscover love, and reconnect with themselves after heartbreak.

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My Story

Growing up in a small town, I learned early on that relationships are the heart of our lives. Watching my parents — two very different but equally loving people — navigate their marriage taught me that love isn't always easy, but it's worth the effort. My mother showed me how to persevere through challenges with grace. These lessons became the foundation of my life and work.

My professional journey began with a degree in psychology and a passion for understanding how we connect, communicate, and love. Over the years, I worked as a relationship counselor, helping women navigate everything from rebuilding trust after betrayal to rediscovering their worth after breakups.

But my most profound lessons came from my own life.

The self-doubt, the fear of being hurt again, and the nagging voice that asks, 'Am I even ready for this?' I've been there.

In my early 30s, I faced infidelity in my marriage. The betrayal was devastating, but it also became a turning point in my life. I had to rebuild myself from the ground up, learning how to trust again, not just others, but myself. That experience was transformative, and it gave me a deeper understanding of what it means to love, lose, and start over.

Today, I combine my professional expertise with my personal experiences to help women create relationships that feel secure and fulfilling. At Love Her Way, I'm here to remind you that love — real, healthy, soul-nourishing love — isn't just possible, it's waiting for you.

Whether you're dating again after a difficult past or strengthening a relationship that matters to you, we'll work together to create the love story you deserve.

Love isn't just about finding the right person — it's about becoming the right person for yourself. Let's rewrite your story together.

My Approach

When it comes to rebuilding your capacity for love and trust after betrayal, I believe in a very practical approach that honors both your past experiences and your hopes for the future. Healthy relationships after infidelity require more than just standard dating advice — they require a deep understanding of trauma, trust and personal boundaries.

My approach blends evidence-based relationship psychology with real-world strategies that acknowledge the unique challenges of dating and connecting after betrayal.

I help women navigate 3 critical relationship phases:

Relationship Readiness: Before dating or attempting to rebuild an existing relationship, we'll work on identifying your authentic relationship values, establishing non-negotiable boundaries, and recognizing your readiness signals. This foundation ensures you're making choices aligned with your true self, not from fear or old patterns.

Connection Building: Whether you're dating again or rebuilding with a partner, I'll help you develop skills for creating authentic connections based on mutual respect and honest, open communication. We'll address common obstacles like fear of vulnerability, trust issues, and self-protective behaviors that may be holding you back.

Relationship Maintenance: Long-term relationship success requires ongoing skills and awareness. I'll help you develop tools for navigating conflicts, maintaining healthy boundaries, and continually growing together while honoring your individual needs and identities.

Throughout our work together, I maintain that you are the expert on your own life and relationships. My role is not to tell you what to do, but to help you clarify what you truly want — and create it.

Transformation Stories

Real Stories

From real women who have walked this path and found healing, confidence, and trust on the other side.

After 15 years of marriage and finding out about his 2-year affair with a coworker, I was completely lost. Love Her Way didn't sugarcoat anything or promise I'd feel better quickly because these women get it because they've lived it.

Sara R.

I found Love Her Way 3 months after finding out about my husband's affair. I was still in that stage where I couldn't eat or sleep. Sophia gave me ways to handle the panic attacks and obsessive thoughts. Worth every penny.

Maggy W.

"Working with Clara helped me navigate dating again after my divorce. I was terrified getting out there and being hurt again but I'm now six months into a new relationship and handling my trust issues so much better

Dana K.

"Lina's guided recordings for dealing with anxiety attacks saved me. Not every technique worked for me, but enough did that I finally started sleeping through the night again. Thank you Lina and Love Her Way for everything!

Ashley K.

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